LAUNCHING
If you have lost someone close to you,
please know that you don't have to walk this path alone.
GRIEF IS SOMETHING EVERYONE TRIES TO AVOID.
BUT IF YOU'RE EXPERIENCING IT, YOU KNOW IT CAN'T BE...
Avoided
Rushed
Silenced!
When you lose your person unexpectedly, everything changes, which is why LETTERS AFTER LOSS is for you
The future you imagined is suddenly gone.
'We' instantly becomes 'Me'.
Everyday life feels heavy, confusing, lonely.
Friends probably tell you that “you're so strong” or “time will heal”
But inside you just want to scream:
“Don’t you understand? I'm not, It won't!”
You long for people who get it.
Those who understand the silence, the tears, the moments of both aching love and crushing absence
You want to connect with people who understand all of this too. No explanations needed.
What starts as a handwritten letter from a stranger, can develop into a friendship found through loss.
The Pen Pal Letter Exchange
FIND comfort and connection through shared words and CREATE quiet companionship, one letter at a time.
Letters After Loss is a gentle pen pal and writing membership for women who have lost a spouse or life partner.
It exists for those who miss having someone to write to and someone who understands without needing the story explained.
There are grief groups.
There are pen pal clubs
But there’s nothing like Letters After Loss
Grief Activity Kit
A Daily Workbook to Remember, Reflect and Care for Yourself
This digital workbook offers a way to move through grief, one small step at a time.
Inside, you’ll find 10 meaningful activities inspired by the things that helped me through my own loss, plus 4 bonus activities to bring a little extra comfort when you need it most.
Each page invites you to pause, reflect, and reconnect with your memories in your own way.
Remember with love, find small moments of peace, and care for yourself as you learn to live alongside your grief.
You don't have to "move on". You can move
forward...with friends that understand
FREE 7 Day Writing Challenge
A safe, guided space to turn memories into a beautiful legacy book - for today and always
Together, step by step, you’ll be supported in gathering stories, choosing a format and shaping your words into something you can hold in your hands and pass on to future generations
Benefit: You’ll not only honour your special someone’s life in a meaningful way but also discover the healing power of storytelling, all while feeling supported by others who truly understand
One of his fears was that he would be forgotten.
I promised that I never would. Hopefully he'll know that I kept my promise.
- CAROLINE
Letters After Loss was born from lived experience
I know what it feels like to face unexpected loss
To wish there was a safe space to simply be without needing to explain
To find people who simply 'get it' too.
What started as a pen pal request on Facebook, has now turned into a letter writing community.
The daily post either consisted of yet another reminder that Paul wasn't here, or a bill that needed paying. Selfishly I wanted to receive something 'nice' in the post and connect with someone who knew exactly the worries and pain that I faced each day. So I posted on Facebook asking if anyone wanted to be my pen pal friend.
The excitement of receiving my first handwritten letter from my pen pal is a feeling that should be bottled up.
And you can have that feeling too.
Welcome to Letters After Loss
Because no one should feel alone in this.
JOIN THE FREE CHALLENGE
7 Days of Daily Writing Activities
Feeling stuck with how to 'be kind to yourself'
Wish you could sit comfortably with your grief?
Join the 7 day writing challenge with daily activities delivered straight to your inbox.
1 day, 1 activity, 1 week.
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